Beltane and Self Confidence

5 days till Beltane!!! 

And maybe you aren't feeling as bright and shiny as you wish you did. It's almost 'fertility day' and self doubt and Does-My-Ass-Look-Fat-In-These-Jeans?? sneaks in. 

See... not cute.

Lets work on our Personal Mystique and give ourselves a confidence boost!! And use this renewal energy to see the Goddesses and Gods inside of us. Beltane is a great time to make ourselves more appealing, not just to everyone around us but to ourselves! The person whose love matters most is you! And boosting self confidence is in the formula to self love!

Any attraction spells you use to bring things to you can also bring self confidence to you! 

Not just stuff or other people! 

Of course our attraction incense can be used but if you don't want anything that intensive there are plenty of other magickal tips to make you feel as beautiful as you really are! 

Crystals

Aquamarine

Citrine

Rose Quartz

Wear these or carry in your pocket. These stones are fabulous for attracting clarity, positive attitude and peace. 

Herbs

I have read that catnip is very effective in helping you exude a more affable form of attractiveness. Guess it works on people as well as cats. So wear that mint or sachet it!

Here is a list of herbs for love

http://www.everythingunderthemoon.net/plants-herbs-roots-for-love.htm

Also a daily personal mantra works. Some people stick post its on their bathroom mirror with lovely affirmations like

"My focus is on being the best me"

"I am worthy of love and respect"

"I am a beautiful soul and I shine my light for all to see"

I personally go for something a little more aggressive. 

The most important thing is, like in any magick, KNOW you are beautiful! KNOW it in your bones, KNOW it in your soul. This world we stumble through is nearly designed to plant our hearts with self doubt so we gotta be stronger then that, and know our worth and know that we are made of the Goddeess, God, Universe, everything!! 

Bringing on the confidence can change a day, a week, an entire lifetime! 

Then even in the same day we can go from Ughhh to ok, not so bad. 

trying to take weird selfies at work is a total confidence booster lol

So keep it positive, keep it real. And Love the fuck out of yourself!!!

❤️❤️❤️

AnnaStacia